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How To Date Safely Online – Men & Women

Safety Tips for Online Daters

Online dating has expanded into platform to make it possible for single Men and Women to find their potential partners . There is always a feeling of adventure, and a sense of excitement in getting  to meet someone new. However; there are certain precautions that must be taken to stay safe when dating online.  The first step is to find a reputable paid site, there is no tangible evidence that they are one hundred percent safe, but they will likely attract more serious people- which preclude the possibility for hazardous characters. Nonetheless; I have to emphasized the important thing to note is that you  are seeking to date a total stranger, and it is crucial to watch out for potential dangers:(.

Online Dating Couple

Couple on Dinner Date

A large number of people have found their ideal partners online conversely;  many others have been the victims of internet dating . Some of us get excited  when we receive a message from a potential date, it is a normal human reaction however; if you are losing touch with reality and allowing  your heart rule your head your sense of safety will be buried in the back of your brain– and All Hell can potentially break loose. There are safe ways to navigate the realm of online dating, and not let your vulnerability get the best of you. if you are desperate to get into a relationship– you will get victimized in every possible way..(

As  security measures, Online Dating Services generally warns their users not to disclose their real names, and contact information on their profiles– they provide a safe way for members  to communicate anonymously. When someone reply to your your profile it is not necessary to get overly excited! You will be given the option to either ignore, to check out the person’s profile or respond. (I always glanced over the person’s page even if it’s just to satisfy my curiosity. ) Well, refrain from pushing the respond icon prior to finding out what the person is about. Leave a short note to let him or her know your communication lines are open.

Looking  4 Love online

Looking 4 Love online

As the world become digital single people are turning to the internet to find love however; some people think  that it is the hallmark of sheer desperation. I remember a few years ago I confided in one of my friends that I was contemplating online dating- she looked at me in total disbelief! I was not surprised because we both were born in the same underdeveloped Island, and based on our culture- men seeks women, not the other way around – except the prostitutes.

Not everyone knows to navigate the tricky world of conventional dating, the answer to this challenge is the internet ,and there is no shame in that as long as you are in full possession of your faculties. One important thing online daters should understand is when another  member show interest in their profile that doesn’t mean ‘ Lonely Nights are  Over!However, some of them  entertain that in the realm of their imagination which is a tragedy!. Don’t get bummed out if you don’t get a follow up from the man or woman who responded to your online profile.. Understand that  he or she doesn’t not owe loyalty to you, no matter how irresistible you think you are! Some of them are clowns – they just like to rattle the cage  As an interesting note-  make sure you remember what they looked like in case they hit your profile again.

Online Dating Safety

Not everyone enjoy the alcohol filled environment looking like desperate bar flies in an attempt to meet someone to have a relationship with. However; in the world of online dating, no one can ignore the existence of danger. I hope I have correctly assume that everyone knows how to stay safe while dating online! Keep  the conversation via anonymous messaging, and don’t reveal personal information until after the first date if you both entered into a genuine agreement to continue to date. That will put you on the threshold of becoming a smart online dater. I’ve heard so many stories form people who were victimized as a results of unsafe online dating practices. Being aware of the danger is instrumental to your safety, and you will not blind sided by gold diggers, mental patients, and whiny brats masquerading as adults ! that can fall under many sub-category.

How To End The Date

Let say you have a shared connection with that person, and the initial spark was present – do Not try to make out with him. Study show that there ere are health risks associated with deep kissing- some of them are: Streptococcus from tooth decay, and Mononucleosis which is a kissing disease. You can end the date gracefully with a peck on the cheek. Locking lips involve saliva- saliva has too much  testosterone in it that can trigger the sex drive hence– I wouldn’t swap it with someone I barely know:(.  To Each His Own! One final note: Do your best to keep your ego in check- displaying too much self confidence on a date is the all time bad behavior …(

Whether You Are a Men or a Women-I Hope You Are Now Ready To Date Safely Online;)








How to Find the Right Man

The right man

The right man



“Do You Know What Type of Man is a Match for You?”

Many of you singles ladies who  have been on the dating scene for awhile and today, you feel as though you have been in a hamster wheel, because the men yo met have you  disappointed. Sometimes, it’s enough to make us want to stop seeking love, and stay home on the week-end watching The Ex Factor reruns on you tube while sipping on lemongrass tea. After all, who wants to have their hearts broken time and time again? (you are not alone)

(…) your friends and family members  probably advised you  to lower your standards, because the picture perfect man that your mind crafted will be hard to find. By the time we became teenagers many of us started to visualized being married to a  Prince Charming, who, unfortunately, does not exist. There are other women who seem to choose the same men, the wrong men, time and time again. Could it be because what women think they want and what they actually need are two different things? So, they keep making the same mistakes over and over again-which brings me to my next point.

When I was a teenager, I portrayed Juliette in the William Shakespeare play in a school  project, and from that day forward I kept picturing myself being married to Romeo – which caused me to dismiss any men who didn’t fit that caliber.  So there is a strong possibility that you may have already met the man of your dreams at the grocery store or at the gym, but you didn’t see him because he didn’t fit the picture of what the perfect man for you would look like.

Regardless of why a woman can’t find someone special, now is the time to find a new strategy, a new course of action. By simply changing the way you think about the type of man you need and not putting so much emphasis on the type of man you want, you will attract to yourself the man that you deserve. You can find that special someone, that one-of-a-kind man, who deserves a wonderful and unique one-of-a-kind woman like you.
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“What Signals Do You Send?”

As a woman, do you know that the way you carry yourself upon entering a room can speak volumes about your self-esteem? Do you slink in without making eye contact, hoping no one notices you? Or, do you stride in confidently, shoulders back, head up, smiling at those around you?

Most men can spot an anxious, insecure woman a mile away and will avoid her at all costs. And, believe it or not, men do want to find that special someone to settle down with. However, it is very important that she be a happy, self-confident individual. And, even though a woman may think she is presenting her best self – in reality, she may be silently sending negative body signals that men pick up on immediately.

If you are a self-confident woman, there is a chance that your confidence might be sending silent signals to men that say, “Don’t come too close, I don’t need a man.” What many women fear is being perceived by men as being “needy.” And in an attempt NOT to come across this way, it is fairly common for them to display an independent streak. Let me tell you a secret about what men really want in a woman. Every man wants a confident woman, who is willing to let a man influence her.

A woman who doesn’t show any vulnerability until she gets to know a man is inadvertently giving men the impression that she is stronger, tougher and more independent than she really is deep down in her heart.
You are probably scratching your head right now and saying to yourself, “Why does it have to be so hard to find a decent man out there?” And, “Why can’t men just accept me for who I am?”

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