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This couple is having a breakdown in communication

This couple is having a breakdown in communication

Communication is an important aspect in a relationship, unfortunately many of us failed to realize it until it’s too late. The lines can become blurred every so often, especially when love and feelings are involved. Even those who think that they are immune to the confusion of conflict can find themselves drawn into a communication breakdown when they least expect it, and chaos ensues.

In my opinion occasional disagreement is inevitable  but constant arguments- especially  over stupid stuff are a  sign of an unhealthy relationship because in the hit of the moment  you will say things to each other you would not be able to take back — and shit will hit the fan! To prevent that from happening, it is imperative to keep the communication line wide open.

People who are self-righteous think after trading insults with their mates- they can go out for  a walk or with the dog, and by the time they returned they’ll either try to have some type of ghetto sex or go straight to bed. (like the guy in the above picture)Neither one of these techniques will make the hurt go away without a conversation. If you lashed in defense because your spouse said something that really hurt your feelings-you probably said something upsetting…(

As the world become digital many relationships suffer because their partners are so obsessed with their  mobile devices they can’t have a normal conversation –that behavior can potentially jeopardize your marriage. If you  dreaded to be in the same bed with your spouse and world’s apart I encourage you get help from a reputable marriage counselor or a good book.  Just because something isn’t spoken about doesn’t mean it’s not important. A relationship or marriage is not a competition, but for many couples it feels like it.

If your marriage is failing due to lack of communication skills it is imperative to seek the guidance of an expert (well, not me:) an order to keep it from going to the wrong direction. I don’t have a marriage to save (thank God ) nonetheless – based on customer reviews, you need to read the book “Save Your Marriage Before it Starts by relationship expert  Dr. Les Parrott. The only way to solve communication issues is by acknowledging it’s existence- denying it will not make it go away. “I know that for a fact!

When people feel guilt or stress, it leads them to act funny ways. Often stress and guilt are barriers to communication. The key to overcoming them is to recognize what it is, and have the courage to talk about it. You might be able to do it as a couple, or you might want the help of a friend who can listen to the way you are communicating with each other and offer insights and advice. However, that is not a long term solution.

When it Comes to Effective Communication Skills, One of the Following is True.

1. Hash out conflict before going to bed

2. There is nothing wrong with sharing the same bed with your spouse but world’s apart

3. You and your partner are  body language superstars,  verbal communication is reserved exclusively to carry out arguments. Hence, you don’t need me or any relationship expert to tell you what to do.

If the third option is true, then carry on – nothing to see here. However, if you lean toward the second option you need to voice your frustration before it reach the boiling point-you both need to talk about your feelings. But I suggest you do so through a mediator to avoid misinterpretation. Couples from all walks of life have experienced some  crisis at one point in their relationships– no one is immune to it but the process through which they are willing to solve it is what makes the difference.

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A good lesson to learn, even for the experts.

Bye for now

Jeannette

 

 

 

 

 

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