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How To Be Happy Single

Ways To Be Happy Single

According to Author Malcolm Gladwell, it takes 10,000 hours of practice to become an expert in anything-in that case I should have earned a Ph.D in the art of being single, because I don’t like to jump from one man to another. After the partnership I formed in early life failed to pass the test of time – I voluntarily stayed single for a number of years. I don’t want to go to an depth boring details,  however, my last relationship left me feeling that my love life was not mine to command and hence, I’ve been living my single/alone life fully and unapologetically for well over 10,000 hours.

Before you blow my shared hosting with bashing comments, I am the first one to admit that being alone sucks sometimes – especially during those sometimes. I didn’t set out to live a single life, I always give my all, in fact-when things were breaking apart I desperately held on and tried to pick up the pieces that should’ve been left alone. The point I am trying to emphasize here is that happiness begins with you, and not about who you share your love life with. If you have the genetic predisposition, you will be happy whether you are single or duo. If you can’t stand being alone and happy with yourself why should someone else be expected to?

While I’m far from being an expert in anything, I’ve learned a few things while being single. Make a list of things you could not do while you were in a relationship (I was not allowed to wear low cut tops- my boobs were always in straight jackets) and do every single one of them them Boldly & Fearlessly. Don’t be afraid to do things alone, this sounds obvious but a lot  of single people spend their single life waiting for another partner to start their life. Be the master of your situation, and cease feeling downcast being single and alone. Get a new blueprint of yourself. There are ways to be happy while single. Below is a list of things do that can make you happy after a breakup.

1. If you are a newbie in singlehood- don’t panic single is not a status, don’t think you have to find someone immediately . It will make you blind to obvious red flags, and entering a toxic relationship is inevitable. additionally;the air of desperation will bring negative energy into the new relationship

2. Travel alone, it feels weird at first however if you ever experiences the stress of traveling with your significant other you’ll love to be on your own schedule. After my break-up I used to travel with friends or family members – they tried to stress me out now I go SOLO…)

3.  Develop self-awareness when you are deeply  in love, you are  prepared to do anything to make it last you lose yourself in the process. So spend time with yourself to get to know who you really are. Read below what I found out was hidden deep in the corner of my soul.

4. Foster other relationships,find someone to love  beside family members.I’m almost positive you’ll find something about that someone who that does it for you. If you are a single man try to befriend her if she is available- if you are a single woman well, I am old school I don’t know how to ask  men out. Conversely awkward predicament is what my love life is currently about. I am ashamed to admit I am in love with a gay guy who is engaged to his long- term partner. What’s makes it bizarre is that I fell for him after he revealed his sexual preference, and clearly conveyed the message by adding that he was not interested to know the female anatomy: (

To those of you who will have questions and comments let me save you time by answering some of them : No I do not have a fetish for gay guys. Who say it’s wrong to love someone who can’t return the love? TRUE LOVE by definition doesn’t require reciprocity. I met him in a meetup group 2 years ago, when he noticed the members were mostly women -during a conversation he dropped the bomb! I can’t train my brain to remove the love however I don’t want him to have any suspicion. He ‘s no longer a member of the group so I don’t get to see him as often as I used to, nonetheless I can’t stop dreaming and thinking  about him – which keeps me from getting into a relationship. Perhaps reality will set in after he gets married . Enough about me! I am done washing my dirty laundry in public.

Some people failed to understand that having a spouse doesn’t necessarily mean happiness. I know people who are married but happily single, but they stay together because they don’t want to be referred to as  “not taken”. When you’re dependent on someone else to make you happy -you’re simply trying to light your path with someone else’s light. Instead of wallowing in self pity, invest that energy into the one person who will always be there for you: YOU!

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With God In Your Life You Will Never Be Alone. He Is Your Silent Listener And Your Invisible Partner.So Be Happy With Your Single Life;)

Peace!. 

 

 

Four Simple Ways To Be Happier

Me & my default smile

Me & my default smile

Happiness is one of the most demanded goal in life, but stress and or unresolved anger makes it hard sometimes for some people to realized that they are blessed and highly favored. If you are the type of person who found yourself unhappy because you are  constantly entertaining negativity. There are 4 simple “quick fixes ” that will help you to deviate from Negativity, and remain positive. Men are more attracted  to women who exude happiness, they want to spend time with women like that. Unhappiness is a health hazard, when you feel sad, angry, and negative emotions are lurking in your mind,use the techniques below on a regular basis, and you will feel much better instantly, and you will attract your life partner- or your Guardian Angels .

1. Smile

Smile as often as possible, even if you feel down. some people are afraid to smile perhaps  because they are concerned they might burn too many calories. According to my parents I was a happy baby hence, smiling is in my default character. Mother Theresa said that ” a smile is a sign of inner peace” that is very true. even if your life is less than perfect. So stop drowning in Negativity:(

Just try it!

You’ll see how smile will make you feel much better even when you feel sad. Some people’s smile is just as fake as their personality, negativity is so ingrained in them, they never seem to be having a good time . Physical expression of your positive emotions gives a signal to your subconscious mind that you are happy. And you instantly feel much more happier.

Smile and laugh more often. Start your morning with smiling to yourself in the mirror. Laugh out load when you watch a funny movie . You’ll get more positive energy into your life.

2. Share Positive Experiences With Others

Don’t miss a chance to tell your friends, relatives and colleagues about the positive experiences in your life, such as an unexpected promotion or an unexpected gift.Don’t be scared to brag. Sharing your positive experience is the most powerful and effective way to create happiness around you. When you share the particular positive moment that happened to you, you experience the same positive emotions over and over again. And the more you share, the more positive emotions you get. And sustaining the positive emotions longer helps you to be a much happier person.

3. Bring The Positive Memories Out

When you feel sad, or not in a mood, think about happy and positive moments from your past.

It could be some happy memories from your childhood, college years or recent positive experiences and events. Try not to analyze anything and simply enjoy the moment.Look through your pictures or the things that remind you about those positive moments. Enjoy these warm feelings of joy and happiness when you think about those positive moments. This is how you can easily make yourself a much happier person instantly.and will help you stay a happier person and attract more happiness into your life.

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4. Practice The Attitude Of Gratitudetrailer movie John Wick: Chapter 2

If you want to be a happier person, be grateful for what you already have and appreciate every positive moment of your life.

Start you day with the thoughts of gratitude for the things you already have in your life. Think about the times when the things were worse than they are now.

For example, that time you lived in a smaller apartment or when the job you had was much than the one you have right now. Try to always see the “half-full glass” side of any event in your life and be grateful for it.

Say “thank you” more often. Say it to your friend, colleague, and even a stranger. This simple way of expressing your gratitude helps you to attract more positive things into your life and be a much happier person.

These 4 easy ways can make you feel happier instantly and will help you stay a happier person and attract more happiness into your life.Click Here!

And happiness is what  attracts men to women and vice versa however, to have a long lasting relationship you need a positive mental attitude. Happiness is a hobby so get addicted to it.

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